
Meeting
old friends is a special experience. When you meet people you knew 20
or 30 years ago it is easy to recognise them although their appearance
has changed greatly. You could recognise them anywhere. It doesn't have
to be a special reunion event. You don't say "you used to be
so-and-so", but recognise your old friends to be the same identities as
the ones you knew before, although we all have changed.
Friends are
important in establishing identity. We become who we are through them.
We learn how to handle conflicts as well as how to laugh and cope
positively with a tough reality. So with old friends we can immediately
laugh and feel comfortable because they are a part of ourselves.
Often we make
new friends at times when we are going through major changes in life
and learning a lot of new ideas. These friends are special friends and
remain with us for life.
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It's interesting to see new friends coming and some old ones leaving as time goes by. Letting them go can be very hard at times but it is part of our lives and is a chance to learn how to deal with it without taking it just as our own fault and maybe to feel unwanted.
By the way - I love the pictures\paintings on your site :-)
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